Longing for Connection (Part I)

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As people created in the image of God, all followers of Jesus have a deep longing for meaningful relationships with others. Ours souls cry for a sense of belonging and most of us will look anywhere and everywhere to fill this empty void. It often begins by seeking those who have a similar interest or hobby; “Oh, you like motorcycles! Me, too. We should hang out, and we should find others who like motorcycles too!”

Short-term, this longing to be connected with others subsides. You may even think, This is great. I’ve found people just like me. Over time, however, you may discover that others in this new group of friends have differences. Some may be democrats, while you’re a right-leaning republican. Some may like to hunt, while you focus on a plant-based diet. The list goes on and on. And just like that, this group in which you really felt a sense of belonging is no longer fulfilling that purpose. 

Perhaps it’s time to reconsider what actually leads to deep, meaningful relationships with others. It isn’t a similar hobby, a favorite food, or even political alignment. It’s something deeper than that. 

READING & PRAYERS:

     1 THESSALONIANS 2:7-8 (also read the commentary notes in your Study Bible of choice.)

QUESTION: Can you think of a time when you started a friendship with a person or a group of people based on a similar interest/hobby? What are some ways these relationships helped you experience a deeper connection with others? What are some ways these relationships may not have fulfilled all of the relational needs you crave? 

DIGGING DEEPER: Consider your strongest relationship (other than a parent, sibling, or spouse). What are the key elements that have helped his relationship remain strong? 

Take a Step: Practice listening to God by utilizing the One Minute Pause app at least twice a day.

PRAYER: Heavenly Father, I acknowledge that as somebody created in your image, I am deeply and profoundly wired for meaningful relationships with others. But the wounds I’ve experienced in relationships cause me to hesitate to fulfill these longings. Today, I simply ask for the strength and courage to seek truly close relationships with others. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

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