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Have you ever read the Scriptures and had the thought, Can’t you provide very specific instructions on what to do and what not to do in different relationships? If so, you’re certainly not alone. Relationships would be so much easier if we just knew exactly what to do/say and what not to.
While the Bible may not provide specific step-by-step instructions for every possible scenario, it does provide the most essential principles for living out relationships well. The challenge isn’t that the Bible is too vague (it isn’t). Instead, the challenge is in our own self-awareness, and whether or not we recognize how our attitude, behaviors, and tone are helping or hurting our relationships with others.
In his book titled Leading from Within, Parker Palmer writes, “I am responsible for my impact on the world whether I acknowledge it or not.”
When it comes to the our relationships with others, both parties are responsible for the impact their attitude, behaviors, and tone have on the relationship. Regarding parents and children, both would be wise to consider how they can ensure the relationship is healthy and thriving.
READING & PRAYERS:
COLOSSIANS 3:18-4:1, EPHESIANS 6:1-4 (also read the commentary notes in your Study Bible of choice.)
QUESTION: What thoughts come to mind when you consider Parker Palmer’s quote, “I am responsible for my impact on the world whether I acknowledge it or not?”
DIGGING DEEPER: What would you say is your primary responsibility regarding your impact on the people around you? How you can ensure you fulfill this responsibility today?
Take a Step: Practice listening to God by utilizing the One Minute Pause app at least twice a day.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father, I confess that when I think about my relationships with others, too often I focus on whether or not other people are aware of their responsibility for the impact they have on those around them. I’m continuing to recognize that this mindset doesn’t work, and I should instead more thoughtfully consider the impact I have on those around me. May my attitude, behaviors, and tone reflect Your love and grace upon those I interact with today. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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