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In the West today, passages on the topic of roles in marriage may be some of the most controversial. However, in their book The Meaning of Marriage — which is considered by many to be one of the very best books on the topic of Christian marriage — Tim and Kathy Keller do an excellent job of portraying the different roles in a marriage relationship.
In a marriage, the husband is to take on the same role Jesus had for the church. Jesus served His people relentlessly. He washed the feet of His disciples, a role that at the time was only done by servants. He did not serve his people as an authoritarian, but instead, when the time came, Jesus willingly gave His life for the church.
Similarly, the wife takes on the role of Jesus. In the same way that Jesus submitted to God the Father, a wife submits to her husband. This is not done out of duty or obligation, but is instead reflecting the delight, respect, love and sacrifice that the husband models.
Indeed, both the husband and the wife take on the role of Christ within the marriage relationship, loving one another as Christ loves us.
READING & PRAYERS:
   COLOSSIANS 3:18-4:1, EPHESIANS 5:21-33 (also read the commentary notes in your Study Bible of choice.)
QUESTION: What, if any, questions or tensions arise within you when you read through today’s Scripture reading? What steps may you need to take to find answers to your questions and/or be able to release those tensions to Jesus?
DIGGING DEEPER: If you’re married, consider your daily routines. What are at least three ways you can more intentionally fulfill the Jesus role in your marriage? Be specific.
Take a Step: Practice listening to God by utilizing the One Minute Pause app at least twice a day.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father, I recognize that passages such as the ones today are sometimes challenging for me because they have been misapplied by those who wish to have control over other people. Continue to help me see that I ought not distrust You or Your Word, but should instead question those who use Your Word inappropriately — as a weapon. Instead, may I continue to see Your Word as an invitation to a way of life that works. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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