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Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they will be called children of God. (Matthew 5:9)
Matthew 5:9 may be one of the most misunderstood and misapplied verses by followers of Jesus in our culture today. This is because too many people think that being a “peacemaker” means that they cannot verbally disagree with others as this may create tension in the relationship. The logic goes something like this: “If there’s ever any tension in a relationship, I must be failing at being a ‘peacemaker.’”
The result can be disastrous. Somebody shares an offensive joke but you don’t say anything because you want to be a “peacemaker.” Somebody is upset because you can’t make it to an event they’re hosting, so your change all of your plans in order to be a “peacemaker.” You discover a colleague has gossiped behind your back saying you must either be lazy or really ignorant. You choose not to confront them because you want to be a “peacemaker.”
In each of these situations, peace is not attained. Why? Because lying to yourself and/or others doesn’t attain peace. Instead, it leads to being a false peacemaker.
READING & PRAYERS:
COLOSSIANS 2:16-23 (also read the commentary notes in your Study Bible of choice.)
QUESTION: How regularly would say you choose not to respond to conflict or tension in order to be a “peacemaker?” How regularly does this lead you to be peace?
DIGGING DEEPER: What do you think about the conclusion in today’s reading; that being a false peacemaker is the same as lying to yourself and/or others?
Take a Step: Practice listening to God by utilizing the One Minute Pause app at least twice a day.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father, I confess there are times when I avoid confrontation, and today’s reading has led me to begin considering whether I’m more of a real peacemaker or a false one. As I remain rooted in You, continue to help me see the many ways You helped bring real peace into the lives of others. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
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