Weird: Sexuality Devotional (Day 5 of 5)

Weird: Sexuality – Day 5 of 5

A Community Group of friends gets together to discuss this week’s message on sexuality, when the following conversation takes place:

Jonathan: “OK, everybody let’s go ahead and get started. I know Sunday’s message about sexuality may have caught some of you off guard, but I think we can still have a pretty good discussion about it.”

Natasha: “I don’t think we need to talk about it at all. I mean, I think sex is a very private subject. What somebody does behind closed doors isn’t really anybody else’s business, right?”

Kira: “Nobody is asking us to talk about personal details of our sex lives. We’re just talking about God’s purpose for sexuality as well what constitutes as sexual sin.

Natasha: “If you say so.”

Jodie: “I kind of agree with Natasha. I mean, do we really need to talk about this? I know the pastor said that it’s not a ‘private’ subject, but it is ‘personal’, and I can kind of buy into that. But it IS personal. And I don’t know that we really need to get into this too much.”

Mark: “Well, I listened to the same message, and I agree with Kira’s assessment. Not only that, but the pastor also talked about confession a great deal, too. I mean, we’ve been together as a group for a while now. Perhaps we can openly discuss some of the struggles we have. If not now, perhaps when we break into separate men/women groups later?”

The room remains silent for at least 30 seconds.

Landon: “I’ll break the silence I suppose. And I’m with my wife (Jodie). It seems like our group here is about 50/50 in our desires to talk through this one. Maybe we should just get into another subject for this week.”

Jonathan: “I see that we all have some strong feelings on this subject, and many may have some questions. Let’s go ahead and check out what the scriptures say, and then we can discuss some of our questions, and maybe even some things we wrestle with. If not in an entire group context, we can do so in separate groups later on. Sound good?”

Everybody nods in agreement.

Jonathan: “Ok, great. The passage for this week is…”

As the group continues their discussion, they discuss subjects such as the cultural celebration of sex, whether or not there’s a difference between fulfillment and satisfaction, and even some specifics regarding sexual sin and the importance of confession. Afterwards, as the men and women meet separately for prayer time, each group member confesses some kind of struggle they have in this area. For some it was clicking on websites. For others, it was romance novels, or flirting with other men or women in the workplace. Jonathan and Rebekah, the group leaders were well prepared and were able to help each individual think through the ramifications of the decisions they had been making. And after an opportunity to pray for one another, each group member agreed to help keep one another accountable.

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Many do not like to talk about sexual sin. We don’t want to point out others sins, and we certainly don’t want to discuss our own. But many are struggling in the area of sexual sin. Recent studies indicate that 77% of men who attend church regularly look at pornography at least once a month. The same statistic for women is over 50%, and climbing rapidly.

Questions to Consider:

  • What do think about the Community Group discussion written above? Which character do you most resonate with and why?
  • Have you ever had a group of friends where you felt free to share anything you were struggling with? What was it like?
  • Do you agree that discussing sexuality is personal, but should not be private? Explain.
  • Read 1 John 1:9 and James 5:16. Why do you think it’s harder for people to confess sexual sin than for them to confess other struggles they may have?
  • Read Psalm 51 (a Psalm written by David after his sin of adultery with Bathsheba). David, king of Israel, wrote a confession that would have been read by everybody in Israel. The punishment in Israel for such sin was usually death.
  • Why do you think David wrote this Psalm?
  • What is one thing you will do this week as a result of this message?

Prayer: Heavenly Father, I acknowledge that You have created sex solely for the marriage relationship, and that within a marriage it is to bring relational fulfillment to both the husband and the wife. I again confess that it’s a challenging subject for me to speak about with others, but I pray that You will provide me opportunities to openly discuss what Your Word says about this subject with my friends and family. I ask this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Weird: Sexuality Devotional (Day 4 of 5)

Weird: Sexuality – Day 4 of 5

Sexuality is not something often openly discussed in our culture today. Instead, we have this mindset of, “Who am I to judge others, and who are they to judge me?” While it may seem ‘Weird’, Jesus has invited us to share our struggles with one another.

Hebrews 3:13 says, “13 You must warn each other every day, while it is still “today,” so that none of you will be deceived by sin and hardened against God.”

Similarly, 1 John 1:19 reads, “But if we confess our sins to him, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.

Read: 1 Corinthians 6:12-7:5

Questions to consider:

  • This passage was written nearly 2,000 years ago. How are people’s thoughts about sex today similar? How are they different?
  • What is God inviting you to do as a result of this passage (see also Hebrews 3:13 and 1 John 1:19)?

Prayer: Heavenly Father, I acknowledge that Your Word regarding sexuality is a tremendous challenge. I see the pervasiveness of sexual sin in our culture, and sometimes it’s easy for me to get caught up in the temporary pleasures of sexual desire. Still, I recognize that it does lead to brokenness within our families, and myself as an individual. Therefore, I want to take the opportunity today to confess my sin of _____________________. I also pray that others will help keep me accountable in this area of my life, even when it may be hard for me to listen to what it is they have to say. I pray this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Weird: Sexuality Devotional (Day 3 of 5)

Weird: Sexuality – Day 3 of 5

One look at television advertisements or one listen to a popular radio station will quickly show that our culture is obsessed with sex. It’s idolized in books, magazines, movies, TV, music, and so on. Sadly, most of what we see and hear would be considered sinful, or against God’s standards.

For example, reading through the New Testament, one will discover a number of sins that are to be avoided. But in the majority of these passages, one specific sin is mentioned more than any other – sexual immorality. (Examples include Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 5:1, 6:13, Galatians 5:19, Ephesians 5:3, Colossians 3:5, and 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8, among others). Some passages, such as 1 Corinthians 6:18 call for us to flee, or run from sexual immorality.

Read: Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 5:1, 6:13, Galatians 5:19, Ephesians 5:3, and Colossians 3:5, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8,

Questions to Consider:

  • What do you think it means to flee from sexual immorality?
  • What steps does somebody need to take in order to flee from sexual immorality?
  • What, specifically, is God asking you to do as a result of these passages?

Prayer: Father, Your Word clearly shows that as a follower of Jesus, I am to flee from sexual immorality. I pray that You will reveal to me any immorality that I may have in my thoughts or actions. In fact, today I would like to confess to you that some of my thoughts and actions have gone against Your desires for me. I pray for Your forgiveness, and I ask for Your wisdom in identifying anything else in my life that leads me away from Your desires. Amen.

Weird: Sexuality Devotional (Day 2 of 5)

Weird: Sexuality – Day 2 of 5:

Outside of marriage, sex offers temporary satisfaction, but never fulfillment. Within a marriage, sex is physical, emotional and spiritual in a sense that it reflects the closeness of the relationship of Jesus and His bride, the church (See Ephesians 5:31-32). But outside of marriage, sex is often thought of only as physical pleasure. It brings temporary joy, but without the emotional and spiritual connection, a void remains. Therefore, the Christian view of sex may seem weird to others, but it’s different in a good way, as it’s the only view that bring true fulfillment to one’s desires and needs.

Read: 1 Corinthians 7:1-5; Ecclesiastes 9:9; Song of Songs 6:2-3.

Questions to Consider:

  • Have you ever thought of the difference between being fulfilled vs. being temporarily satisfied?
  • Why do you think God designed sex so that fulfillment can only be experienced within marriage? Explain.


For those married: God, I confess today that I’ve never thought of the difference between being fulfilled vs. being satisfied. I pray that you will help my spouse and I to see and understand one another’s needs, and that we will do our best to truly fulfill one another. Most of all, I simply pray that you will continue to help me see that the sexual aspect of my marriage is a reflection of the relationship Jesus has with me, and I’m thankful for passages that bring this truth to light. Amen.

For those unmarried: God, I acknowledge that I don’t often think about the difference between fulfillment and satisfaction. Though I’m not currently married, I pray that I will continue to find my fulfillment in You and Your Word above all things, and that you will send others into my life to encourage me to only engage in sex after marriage. I pray all this in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Weird: Sexuality Devotional (Day 1 of 5)

Weird: Sexuality – Day 1 of 5

People have been celebrating sex for thousands of years. In the Old Testament, other nations celebrated sex by worshiping their gods. They believed that the more they engaged in sex, the more rain they would receive for their crops. In the New Testament, prostitution was often public, as many believed that sex was nothing more than an appetite (1 Corinthians 6:12-20).

The Bible, however, indicates that sex ought to be celebrated as something created by God. In fact, the very first command God gave Adam and Eve after creation was – have sex! While this passage and many others show that it is to be experienced only within the context of marriage, it is noteworthy that God has designed it not only for procreation (Genesis 1:28), but also for play and pleasure (Song of Songs 2:8-17; 4:1-5:1).

Read: Song of Songs 2:8-17 and 4:9-5:1; Proverbs 5:19

Questions to Consider:

  • What, if anything, would be weird (different in a good way) about Christians beginning to celebrate sex, as something created by God to bring play and pleasure into marriage?
  • Do you think passages such as these should be discussed more often in churches today? Explain.


Heavenly Father, I acknowledge that openly discussing or even thinking about sex as a part of your creation may be new to me. I pray that throughout the week, Your Word will open my eyes to think about this subject in the ways that You think about it. I ask that you will root out any negative thoughts I may have, and help me to better understand your intentions for the sexual relationship within marriage. I pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Weird: Religion Devotional (Day 5 of 5)

Weird: Religion – Day 5 of 5

One of the things God has called each of us to do is to share our faith with others. It seems ‘Weird’, but God invites everybody who has sinned against Him, to speak for Him, sharing the Gospel Message with others.

Read: John 3:16-17, John 14:6, Romans 3:23, 6:23, 5:8, 10:9, and 5:1.

Question to consider: Who is one person I can share my faith with? Write down a time you will meet with them to do so.

Prayer: Heavenly Father, I recognize that You have not only called me to set aside my old life, but You desire me to share with others the new life I have in Christ Jesus. Admittedly, I’m a bit nervous to do so. That said, I know that I know others who do not yet have a relationship with You. This week, I pray for opportunities to share my story with those who may not know You. Prepare their hearts for the message You would have me to share with them. These things I pray, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Weird: Religion Devotional (Day 4 of 5)

Weird: Religion – Day 4 of 5

Everybody knows the story of David and Goliath. Goliath, a huge warrior mocks God’s chosen people, and the soldiers of Israel were terrified to stand in his presence. But David, a young shepherd with no military experience, is willing to stand in battle against Goliath. David had seen and heard Goliath mock the armies of the living God, and David responds to Goliath, boldly declaring that God will defeat him. When the battle was over, the men of Israel overtook the Philistine army. It was a battle they should not have won. But David’s trust in God carried them to victory.


Read: 1 Samuel 17


Question to consider: Many times we move out into life thinking we cannot truly overcome the situations before us. But the story of David and Goliath reminds us that trusting God can and will lead to victory. Are you trusting God to help you overcome the challenges you’re facing today?


Prayer: Heavenly Father, I acknowledge that far too often I trust myself, instead of fully putting my trust in You. Today I want to again confess my sins of _____________________. While these sins sometimes overwhelm me, I know that by bringing them to You and entrusting them with You, they will no longer overwhelm me, but may instead be used by You to help me become the person You have made me to be. And this is my prayer today, that You will continue to show me the person You have made me to be. Amen.

Weird: Religion Devotional (Day 3 of 5)

Weird: Religion – Day 3 of 5

Nobody knows for certain why Paul wrote his letter to the Colossians. However, one thing seems very clear: the people there were not following God in the ways they should. Earlier in the letter, Paul writes about who Jesus is (see Colossians 1:15-20). And in Chapter 3 he writes about the new life we have in Christ. All who have a relationship with Him have died to our old life, and now we must live the life God has called us to live.

To the Colossians, he writes about all the things they used to do, and how they must set those things aside to be the people God has called them to be.

Read: Colossians 3:1-17

Question to consider: Colossians 3 provides a challenging list of things Paul says we should have nothing to do with. These include, sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires, greed, anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, dirty language, and lying. Which of these do you find most prevalent in our culture today? Which of these do you personally struggle with the most? What is God inviting you to do to rid yourself of this struggle?


God, I confess that the one thing I struggle with the most is ______________. As I go through this day, this week, and even this month, I pray that you would continue to reveal to me the life You have called me to live.

Mid-Week Challenge: Memorize Colossians 3:14 – Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.

Weird: Religion Devotional (Day 2 of 5)

Weird: Religion – Day 2 of 5

In Ephesians 4, the Apostle Paul writes about not living as Gentiles do. A ‘Gentile’ in the Bible is somebody who was not of Jewish background. In Ephesians 4, Paul is saying that we are not to live in the same way as those who are not following God.

The Gentiles way of living would have been considered the ‘normal’ way of living. But Paul essentially says to not live in that way, which leads to confusion, but to live in a ‘Weird’ way instead.

Read: Ephesians 4:17-32

Question to Consider: Compare Ephesians 4:17-32 with Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7. What similarities do you see? What are some things mentioned in Ephesians that are not specifically mentioned by Jesus in Matthew 7?

Prayer: Father, it doesn’t take long for me to look around and see how it is that Gentiles live. As I go about my day today, give me the strength and the courage to continue living differently. My desire is not to live a life of confusion, but to instead live a life of clarity. And I ask that You give me clarity to live in the ways You desire. Amen.

Weird: Religion Devotional (Day 1 of 5)

Austin: “Hey, what’s that you’re listening to?”

Michael: “Oh, it’s nothing really.”

Austin: “C’mon, what is it?”

Michael: “My family and I were out of town over the weekend, so I’m just listening to the weekend message from our church. It’s quite fascinating really, it’s about…”

Austin: “I don’t know why you bother with that stuff. I mean, all that stuff about God, and Jesus and…. I mean C’mon, you really believe there’s some magic man in the sky that watches over us?”

Michael: “Well, I don’t believe he’s magic. But yes, I do believe in God.”

Austin: “And what was the message about this weekend?”

Michael: “I’m only a little ways into it. But it’s about being weird.”

Austin: “Well going to church is weird.”

Michael: “Some may think so. But the pastor defined weird as being different, but different in a good way. It’s living life in a way that other people respect, and admire, and appreciate, and …”

Austin: “Well, we obviously have disagreements about some things. But I can say that I generally do respect and appreciate you as a person. But ‘Christians’ in general, they leave a pretty sour taste in my mouth. They never get along – just look at how many different denominations there are. And they bicker about things politically more than anybody else I know. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

Michael: “Oh?”

Austin: “Well yeah. They’re just as judgmental as others. They’re just as temperamental as others. The divorce rate among Christians is about the same as the rest of culture. There’s not much that’s different-in-a-good-way about Christians from what I can see.”

Michael: “Fair enough. But of all the Christians you DO know, do you see much that is different about them – different in a good way?”

Austin: “Like I said, I really appreciate and respect you. How you conduct yourself here in the office is quite admirable. But when I think about most other Christians I know, I would have to say, no.”


In Matthew 7, Jesus invites us to live in a way that would be considered ‘Weird’ by many. He says things such as, “Don’t judge others. Don’t view yourself and your actions as better than others. Always want the best for others. Do for others what you would want them to do for you. And those who follow these words are wise.”

But there’s more to it than that. Much more.

Matthew 7:13-14 (ESV) says, 13 “Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. 14 For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.

Questions to consider:

Do you have any friends or family who have similar thoughts as Austin?

Is there anything else about God and/or Christianity they dislike that Austin didn’t mention?

Where do you think Christianity is failing the most? In other words, why do you think Christ-followers are not seen as being different in a good way?

Read Matthew 7. Are you currently experiencing a life challenge that makes it difficult for you to live differently, in a good way?

Does Jesus teach anything in Matthew 7 that describes how you can respond to this challenge in a way that leads to life, and not destruction?


God, as we begin this new series, I pray that You will clearly show me how I can better stand out among those I know. Provide me wisdom to stand out to my family. My friends. And all of my co-workers, classmates, or teachers. Lead and guide me to live out the principles Jesus teaches in Matthew 7. I pray in Jesus’ name. Amen.