Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Fulfilled by Joy

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Each and every day you make hundreds and hundreds of decisions. You’ll choose what to wear, what to eat, what to read, what to watch, and so much more. But will you choose to live with a spirit of joy? 

For many of us, joyis a feeling and not much more. But the New Bible Dictionary points out that joy is a quality, and not simply an emotion. Some Scripture passages include:

  • Psalm 16:11 indicates that joy can be a way of life due to experiencing the presence of God. 
  • Philippians 4:4 says to rejoice in the Lord always
  • Romans 15:13 indicates that you can be filled completely with joy. 

Passages such as these reveal that joy isn’t a temporary feeling of happiness or satisfaction. It isn’t something that comes and goes like hunger or thirst. Instead, you can be completely and totally fulfilled with the joy of the Lord. 

What choices will you make today so that you can better experience a life completely and totally fulfilled by joy? 

READING & JOURNALING:

     ROMANS 14:17, PHILIPPIANS 4:4-9, PSALM 16

What comes to your mind when you think of being satisfied by something vs. being fulfilled by it? 

What choices will you make today so that you can better experience a life completely and totally fulfilled by joy? 

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, the themes of hope, peace, joy, and love are common this time of year. But I acknowledge that it’s easy to think about each of these as fleeting emotions that can bring temporary satisfaction, instead of recognizing them for what they really are – gifts from You that bring lasting fulfillment. Today, may the decisions I make reflect my desire to know You and experience the joy that only You can provide. In Jesus’ name. Amen. 

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Joy is Part of God’s Nature

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How would you describe the very nature of God to somebody else? What is He like? If you were to get down to very core aspects of God, the very essence of who He is, how would you describe it? 

As we will see in greater detail next week, Love is at the very heart of the nature of God. But joy is also a part of the very nature of God. 

For example, Nehemiah 8:10 says, …for the joy of the Lord is your strength. This is a verse that’s easy to misunderstand. Some may read it with the thought that God gives or provides joy – which is true. But there’s more to it. 

First, we must remember that one cannot give what he doesn’t possess. As such, this passage indicates that God freely gives joy because He has it in abundance.

Second, we can rest in the knowledge that one of God’s greatest desires is that we experience real joy. As such, when we take steps to experience real joy, we are actually doing exactly what God desires us to do. He wants us to experience Him. He wants us to be with Him. He wants us to have joy.

READING & JOURNALING:

     NEHEMIAH 8:10

Do you struggle to believe that one of God’s desires is for you to experience lasting joy? If so, why do you think that is? 

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, I confess it is sometimes difficult for me to understand that You truly desire me to experience joy. But Your Word is good and true. When I think about Your nature it’s clear to me that You really are full of joy and You give this joy freely to those who seek You. May I seek You today in everything. I pray in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Joy

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What comes to mind when you think of joy? Some may think of your wedding day and the dreams of a new family. Some may think of the birth of a child. Still others may consider a special family heirloom gifted from an aging grandparent. These examples, and others like it, reveal that joy comes through positive experiences. Something exciting occurs so we feel joy. 

But the Scriptures regularly show some other aspects of joy that we sometimes lose sight of. We see that joy…

…is experienced collectively by all of God’s people (Psalm 16:9, 43:4) – they sang songs about their joy. 

…is a gift from God (Isaiah 49:13, 61:10).

…could be experienced even in the midst of suffering (Matt.  5:11-12, Col. 1:24, 2 Cor. 6:10, 1 Peter 4:13). 

Today, take some time to consider what brings you joy. Are you proclaiming your joy collectively with others? Do you recognize it as a gift? Are you able to continually experience it, even in the midst of suffering?  

What is joy? Joy is choosing to be happy, even when things don’t go your way.

READING & JOURNALING:

     ISAIAH 61:10, MATTHEW 5:11-12, 1 PETER 4:13

What is your current understanding of joy? 

Are you able to experience joy, even in the midst of suffering? 

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, I confess that joy isn’t something that always comes naturally for me, especially in seasons of suffering. This week, may my understanding of joy grow and change, and may I experience real joy as I spend more and more time in Your presence. I pray in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Write it Out

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What usually comes to mind when you think of the word Peace? 

In what ways have the readings this week helped you grow in your understanding of Peace?

Take some extra time today to write out a prayer to God. Share your heart, fears, and feelings with Him, knowing He is intently listening, and believing He is with you in all things.

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: What You Bring to Others

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In his book Emotionally Healthy Discipleship, Peter Scazzero provides these simple truths:

  1. You cannot give what you do not possess.
  2. What you do is important, but who you are is even more important.
  3. The state you are in is the state you give to others. 

Each of these statements have tremendous value for our lives and in how we relate with others. But this third one is worth highlighting in greater depth. 

When you are living with tremendous hope, you are naturally in a state of bringing this hope into the lives of others. When you are living with tremendous peace, you are naturally in a state of bringing peace into the lives of others. This principle carriers over into faith, joy, and love, and every other virtue. 

But the reverse is also true. When you are living with tremendous hurt, anger, or fear, you are naturally in a state of bringing these things into the lives of others. As you read today, take some time to consider your current level of peace.

READING & JOURNALING:

     JOHN 14:27-28

Do you agree that the state you are in is the state you give to others? 

On a scale of 1-10, what would you say is your current level of being at peace?

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, I confess that most days I don’t think about how the state I’m in impacts others. And today I realize the self-centeredness in this. May I rest in Your gifts of hope, peace, joy, and love, so that all I interact with experience these virtues in full measure. I pray in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Strive For Peace

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Have you ever been in a situation in which there wasn’t conflict, but you could sense that it was coming? A moment when there was some level of unease or tension, but everybody present just pretended like everything was OK? 

The simple reality is that we all experience these moments. And when they happen we immediately have to consider how to respond. Do we raise our hand and say something, or do we just continue to sweep it under the rug? 

These moments show us that peace is so much more than a lack of conflict. While there may not be open conflict, the unspoken tension reveals the lack of true peace.

Search for peace, and work to maintain it.

1 Peter 3:11

This passage reveals that ongoing peace in our relationships with God and others takes effort. Peace isn’t merely a lack of conflict. It’s identifying anything that can be hindering personal and relational health and taking the necessary steps to overcome those barriers. Avoiding tough conversations or having them in an unhealthy way isn’t helpful. Instead, make ongoing efforts to experience and maintain peace with others.

READING & JOURNALING:

     1 PETER 3:11, PSALM 34:14

Think of a time when somebody else worked really hard to maintain peace with you. What was that experience like?

In what ways do you need to work to maintain peace with others today? 

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, I confess that there are times when I pretend everything is OK and don’t take the difficult steps to work for real peace. Moving forward, help me have the wisdom to know when not to avoid difficult conversations. Similarly, help me have the wisdom to have these conversations in a godly, healthy way. I pray in Jesus’ name. Amen. 

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Experiencing Peace

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Take a few minutes to be honest with yourself and answer this question. “I will experience peace when __________.” If you have more than one answer, take time to write them all down.

After thinking it through, were you surprised by your own answer? There are hundreds of potential answers you could have. Some examples include, I will experience peace when…

  • …I’m out of debt. 
  • …I have a car that runs well.
  • …I get the promotion I deserve. 
  • …I have children or…the children I have leave the house.

Our culture loves to communicate that the grass is always greener on the other side. But the other side is a moving target, and you’re not likely to hit a moving target. 

Today, take opportunities to remind yourself that real peace comes only through Jesus. Romans 5:1 says, since we have been made right in God’s sight by faith, we have peace with God because of what Jesus Christ our Lord has done for us. 

What is peace? Peace is knowing that Jesus is all we really need.

READING & JOURNALING:

     ROMANS 5:1-11

Review how you’ve spent your time over the previous 48 hours. What have you been going to in an attempt to experience peace? Has it worked? 

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, today has helped me realize that I am often a product of our culture, and therefore believe the lie of “the grass is always greener on the other side.” Today, I will simply rejoice in the truth that I have peace with God because of what Jesus has done for me. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Peace

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If you were to write down how our current culture defines the word peace you would probably discover a lot of different answers. Some would say that peace is a lack of conflict. You’re “at peace” with others as long as you’re not experiencing conflict with them. Others may say that peace is a lack of stress or anxiety. 

But in ancient Jewish culture, individuals and families would often greet one another by saying, “Peace (Shalom).” This Hebrew word isn’t simply a lack of conflict, but instead means ‘completeness’ or ‘well-being.’ As such, it wasn’t merely a greeting, but a personal blessing. Saying, “Shalom,” in greeting was akin to saying, “May you experience completeness and the presence of God this day.” 

Similarly, those who sought shalom knew that it could only be experienced as a gift from God. It couldn’t be purchased. It couldn’t be found in work or relationships. Instead, God’s people knew they could only experience real peace in Him. This principle continues to apply to us today.

What is peace? Peace is knowing that Jesus is all we really need.

READING & JOURNALING:

     ISAIAH 9:6-7

What do you think it means that Jesus is the Prince of Peace? How would you describe this title to somebody else? 

PRAYER:

Heavenly Father, as I begin this next week of Advent I simply pray that I would experience your Shalom this week – the peace that only You can provide. In Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Write it Out

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What usually comes to mind when you think of the word Advent? 

In what ways have the readings this week helped you grow in your understanding of Hope?

Take some extra time today to write out a prayer to God. Share your heart, fears, and feelings with Him, knowing He is intently listening, and believing He is with you in all things.

Recapturing the Wonder of Christmas: Look Back to Look Forward

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Romans 15:13 reads, I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.

There’s no shortage of Scripture passages on the topic of hope. But, as was mentioned earlier this week, our culture has had a negative impact on how we may understand hope. We may define hope by thinking of a material object (hoping for a specific Christmas present) or even an emotion (I hope ____ happens so I can experience more happiness in life). 

Because we’re tempted to think in these ways, we have to rid our minds of what our culture says about hope, and instead regularly remind ourselves what God says. God essentially says, “Put your hope in Me. Remember who I am. Remember what I’ve done. Then, you can have real hope. You can look forward to what I’m going to do, because you have trusted in what I’ve already done.”

What is hope? Christian hope is a choice to wait for God to act, and it looks back to the risen Jesus in order to look forward.

READING & JOURNALING:

     ROMANS 15:13

How often do you take intentional opportunities to look back on all Christ has done in and through You?

Take some time right now to write down some specifics of what Christ has done in and through you. Then, write out your own prayer of Thanksgiving. 

PRAYER:

Today, write out your own prayer of Thanksgiving.  

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